Friday, January 2, 2015

2015.......My new chapter

'2015 is really a new chapter for me, I have started the New Year as a divorced single mother. My ex-husband was seeing another woman for the last couple of years (a year that I definitely know of and according to a text she wrote to him two years). He moved out the later part of October. I filed for divorce on our 21st wedding anniversary, December 11, 2014 and the divorce was finalized on December 29, 2014. A total of 18 days is what it took. It probably wouldn't of taken that long but I forgot a section. Wow, 21 years and just in 18 days it's over and in two day after that is was back to my maiden name. I changed my social, drivers license, car title, and bank accounts in two days. Funny story about the car title. Since I had to change the plate from volunteer firefighter to regular plates the lady at DMV skipped a license just to give me the license plate number 911 XXX. She said to piss him off. Ha ha. I just hope that 2015 is as easy as these last few weeks.
Bertha talked me into getting a snap chat so now I am learning that, so we snap each other. And now I want to try blogging more, just for me. So I can remember and track my life.
Since my ex has left it has been one struggle after another, first my tire had a hole/gash in it, then I needed to replace a rear break ( that is a lot of $), then my dryer broke ( we are drying in the casita), we ran out of wood and had to have my nephew block some ( he only blocked two logs) and I split them, oh yeah the sewer is plugged and now has frozen so we have lost use of my bathroom. Oh yeah I think the toilet needs a new ring also.
I don't want to be a downer to anyone but I am writing this for me and I feel that it helps me right now and it will help me when I look back to see all that I have accomplished.
I wasn't the best person to be around this x-mas break but I did take the kids ice skating and to play pool a few times. The weather is just so cold and I am too depressed to do anything. My sleeping habit suck too. I am not getting enough sleep that's for sure. 
Tomorrow CJ has a basket ball game and I get to see his dad, happy, happy joy, joy.


Here is a snapchat photo that my youngest and I took. Our first selfie for 2015.